The Harsh Social Impact of the Shallon Lester Drama.


What is this whole drama really about? Gender? Psychological Abuse?

00:00 – What Shallon Lester did & her defenders
02:09 – Man vs Women? Gender War & Group Think
05:00 – How both Genders can Abuse.
06:00 – PUAs, Incels & Manosphere vs Shallon & “Female” Content
07:00 – Cancel Culture & Double Standards

09:10 – I’m not only defending Men
11:00 – Deflecting the argument. (Lemons vs Oranges)
13:15- The Divide between Male & Female
17:00 – “Stay in your lane” + Racism
19:26 – My Direct Experience with Manipulation

21:27 – Celebrity Gossip isn’t the Problem
23:00 – If a young girl takes Shallon’s Advice
26:47 – Imagine if your Son or Daughter met Shallon.
29:00 – Why her past action’s still matter
30:48 – My Experience with Bullies & Abuse.

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  1. Thank you for taking the time to make this video on this very important topics. Please keep speaking up on these topics. Stay amazing

  2. The people defending her saying "what about the guys?" is like when people say "what about male victims?" while a girl talks about when she was raped by a guy

  3. I completely understand the points you’re making but I think people need to take responsibility for their actions. I’ve seen some of her videos but never would I let her or any other stranger influence my actions. People should have personal accountability and take platforms like YouTube for what they are, entertainment.

  4. how is she able to have any relationship with anyone being so open about her terrible behavior. She literally has no positive qualities. If she were in the same room as me,I would have to leave to avoid going to jail

  5. Pierre! I just found your channel somehow and I love the way you think! I’m a dude too and just like you, I had Shallon’s videos showing up in my feed a couple months ago. I found her to be very interesting and intelligent, but once I started seeing the pattern of her toxic behavior, I immediately and purposefully decided not to click, comment, support her behavior. Your topic at 26:47 could of been ME (as a male) listening to her advice and buying into what she is saying and ME manipulating women and men with her advice. My point is regardless of the gender, I’m sure she has male followers too and they could possibly use her advice in the same way to affect women (or other men). You have such a valid point!!!!!!! Your own son or daughter can be affected or even affect SOMEONE… regardless. I watched several of your vids today, brilliant man. Subscribed!!!!!!!

  6. Wierd how people hear what they want to hear, especially when they are seeking out slights and insults. I just watched the Lester video and Pierre kept it as gender neutral as humanly possible. Lester is a bad person, regardless of gender/identity/orientation. m
    Male or female or whatever, Lester is toxic.

  7. I agree with your statements so much. I treat everyone equal and I don’t give a shit what your sexuality, gender, or your ethnicity is. If you’re an asshole I’m going to tell you that you’re being an asshole regardless of what you are. I’m not going to treat anyone better or worse.

  8. It's literally like she's manufacturing manipulative/abusive with her advice that spreads. And honestly there is no excuse man or women.

  9. I think i have been abused and manipulated by more women than men, and of course men do it too, now its not the time to create division, thats something im so against but people just think that abuse is physical and since men are the ones who are more violent in general we forget that women can be quite harmful, the most toxic relationships i´ve had have been with women and I have been toxic too to one my male friends and its not ok, I changed for the better and I was not completely aware of the harm I was doing till recently but thats why I can say that yes a woman can really fuck up a guy, in the end its not about gender, we have to look for the greater good, we have to fix these issues togather but it all starts with you…bless you pierre, what a great video, I agree with you pretty much in everything you said.

  10. The ppl who defend her are women take the same courses of action. Its obvious. Shallon herself is all about women being greater than men. So it being men vs woman isnt a surprise.

  11. Red PIller stuff isn't on Youtube doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Its all over 4chan and 8chan (was only recently removed from Reddit). There are bad side to deplatforming, it means its forming its own echo chambers else where. However the toxic ideologies have been around for a long time, and haven't left even after they've been "deplatformed". I think this toxic way of relating to each other both as females and as males needs to stop.

  12. Love your videos man. This one in particular is helping me not go back to an abusive ex who did all sorts of shit exactly like what Shallon peddles.

  13. She is toxic and i saw it in the first vidio i watched that came up in my suggestion. It seemed normal at first then it got weird.

  14. Maaaa where you been all muh life?! I think the same things! I started watching her because of the shit I was going through but I can't be like that. I definitely like some of the things she says but! Tbh she's not giving me advice on the ways I could ever be. Thank you for your insight it's the most!

  15. Well said! I completely agree with what you said, and i hold the same opinions and beliefs. Its great to watch someone with a platform and a strong voice put these truths (as i see them) into the world.. Youre immensely insightful, well versed, and overall brilliant. I truly adore you, Pierre. Also… This should be a PSA. =]

  16. It's like Kaitlin Bennett. I still cannot believe that she uploads the videos and does not see how bad light they shine on her. Any normal person would think that just must be a joke. Right? Well I must be wrong cause apparently every time someone dissects her vids her fans go crazy… Like how can she even have fans? America what is wrong with you? Same exact situation, I cannot believe that Shallon doesn't understand how badly she represents herself in her vids. I just cannot believe that no part of her thinks its just a joke going wild on the internet… but people keep challenging my faith in humans being not retarded, so I guess here we go.

  17. Your channel is honestly making me a better person. I feel like everyone talks about equality, but many don't even understand what it means.

  18. I'm a bit late to the party… but better late than never right. I'm 42 and suffered lots of abuse from both ends of the spectrum for over 30 years. One thing I can say is that hate begets hate and if or when the hate gets to you, you end up become the abuser… And the perpetual cycle of Bull Shit continues. Abusers are just predators be it a man or a women… Thanks for this video @PIERRE XO

    Hopefully with enough awareness and understanding this perpetual cycle can be broken.

  19. I dont even believe MOST abuse is committed by men. Men are so less likely to report it or be taken seriously if they do that we will never know the real numbers.

  20. 80/20 rule and the Alfred Alder life lies feminism taught women.
    'All men are like this!'
    "80% of men aren't even getting laid, loser."

  21. I’m so thankful and grateful for you. I made my YouTube channel about 2 weeks ago because this is the message that I want to get across people. I desperately need to spread this message. I’m passionate about this, and I’m so tired man. The message is that I’m so fucking tired. I’m tired of the hate, I’m tired of the ignorance, I’m bothered by the dismissive attitudes, I’m bothered by superficial and shallow people being in the spot light. We (we as in the human race however I know not everyone is like this, but I’ll use we just because it’s easier) ATTACK each other over differences of opinion. We are incapable of viewing a perspective that isn’t our own. We judge others if we don’t agree with how the feel about someone. When are we going to realize that we have so many valuable things to learn from one another? When are we going to realize that we are the root cause of the division in America? When will we stop playing into and believing what social media and the media in general throws at us? When will be realize it’s all an illusion, it’s all fake. When will we finally look towards the truth? We can learn from each other, educate each other, help each other grow, uplift each other, accept constructive criticism without being offended because it’s essential for our own personal growth. We are so blind, our society is absolutely wrong in almost every single way. We walk the path of hate refusing to check out what the path of love might have to offer along the way. Our egos are large, our heads even larger, and our self awareness is small. We need to self reflect and we need to think before we speak. We don’t understand at all how powerful our words truly are. It takes a thousand positive/kind affirmations to cancel out ONE hurtful insult. We’re doing it wrong, we are refusing to see the bigger picture, and we are drowning in hate and arrogance as a society. Lord.. I could go on forever. Keep on keeping on. I’ll never lose faith that one day we WILL wake from this sleep.

  22. From my perspective, it is pretty rare to not stumble onto a woman who does not hold or enable any due form of narcissistic, conniving behiavor.

    People are going to be mad about my statement, but bitching culture is the new normal within feminine subculture.

  23. Kind of curious as to what videos someone would have to be watching on a regular basis to have Shallon pop up as a recommendation, because I'd never heard of her until I started watching Pierre's vids.

  24. Stuff like this just makes me think about one of my favorite songs. "Strumming my pain with his fingers. Singing my life with his words. Killing me softly with his song. Killing me softly, with his song. Telling my whole life, with his words. Killing me softly…."

    People go on the defensive with this sort of subject because their anecdotal evidence is the tell-all and absolute truth over the over abundant evidence that their 'truth' is poop. When they are jolted from their centric way of thinking it will always be deflection, followed by anger and finger pointing. We can hope that they will be okay one day and accept the truth but boy that is quite the fight now only are others going to have to deal with but that person most of all.

    Unfortunately, until we as a society stop with the BS and hold everyone, including ourselves accountable for those negative actions, this whole situation is going to get worse and it saddens me.

  25. Someone get this sexy man on the JRE. Joe needs to have some tokes and a good long 3 hour convo with this absolute bad ass.

  26. The defence of Shallon by so many people is just pure gynocentrism, that is the double standard you're talking about.

  27. Hell yes both genders can be abusive! This shouldn’t even be a gender discussion. Damaged people abuse. Anyone can be damaged. I was abusive a lot of my life growing up. I was damaged. I’m a woman. Being damaged isn’t an excuse but that seems to be the root cause a lot of the time. I hate this fixation on gender.

  28. Too many of us harp on the emotional aspect of the breakup, instead of learning from the experience.

    If any man stay in their masculine frame those bullshit games does work at all

  29. Men wont look u in the eye because they are worried they will be attracted to u. Only a man who is secure in his own sexuality will be able to look u in the eye. You look like a guy who wears makeup and looks good doing it. I don't see the issue and why it's a even a thing
    As for people with sellons personality are just broken people, men or woman, doesn't matter which.

  30. The worse kind is the abusive female that everyone thinks is innocent and amazing so much that when you come toward about her shit no one believes u

  31. Bro your awesome don't stop doing what your doing. If I was living where you are I'd hang with you a lot. Good stuff brutha.

  32. I partially disagree about her using second or third party language of it's meant as a warning. Having said that, if she genuinely wanted to "warn" people, she wouldn't be saying all that shit with such confidence and pride in her voice. If she developed remorse for her past actions, chances are she would say something to that effect. "I fucked up" or "I was a really shitty person and I should never had done these things for xyz reasons". There was none of that, so the "warning" shit is just that…shit.

  33. I don't know you Pierre but I am so Glad I found you. You speak to my soul and the transparency you exude is absolutely beautiful to watch. Please do not let this ugly world turn your beautiful soul into an ugly one. I genuinely am rooting for you💙❤💜🙏

  34. Just went to her channel and she’s still making content with very little psychological backing. Only change was her dislike/like buttons being disabled.


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